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Posted by on May 25, 2017 in Sex Disscussion, Uncategorized, Understanding Sex |

I Have Sex Problems

I have been with my boyfriend for about 12 years now, and I did not know that he had a problem with what he likes to call my idea of kinky sex. All of a sudden he sprung it on me when I came home from my shift at London escorts one night. He just told me that he could not handle any more kinky sex, and I was totally taken back. I had never thought that my idea of sex as kinky. Some of the girls that I work with at London escorts are really into kinky sex, but I did not think that I was kinky.

The funny thing is that he had never bothered to tell me before. It really upset me to be honest, and I told my best friend at London escorts about what he had said. She was just as surprised as I had been when I first heard about it, and I am sure that the rest of my colleagues at London escorts will be as well. Like one of the girls said, could it be that there is something else going on here apart from the sex issue.

Why would someone wait for 12 years to tell you that he thinks that you are kinky in bed? That is the thing that I cannot get over at all. I don’t think that I am that kinky at all when it comes to sex, and all of my colleagues at London escorts do agree with me. What is wrong with wanting to watch pornos and play with sex toys? I am sure that a lot of people do that, and you don’t have to work for London escorts to let that sort of fun into your life. Thinking about, his reaction is way over the top.

If you don’t like something that your partner likes to do in bed, I think it is okay to tell him or her.

I have dated so many gents at London escorts who have got what I would call really kinky ideas. None of my ideas come anywhere near their ideas. The kind of sex that I have been having with my boyfriend has been great, but it is not like we have been practising BDSM or anything like that. Far from it actually, and I think that most of our sex life has been really rather normal.

Some nights we have gone to bed and not had sex at all. We have actually made love and it has been really good for me. My boyfriend is really good at foreplay and that to me is really important as well. I need to sit and talk to him about it, but it sounds very much like he feels that he is not in control of our sex life. Or could it be another problem altogether? Like one of the girls at London escorts said, could it be that he has met someone else and just want to get out of the relationship. It would really disappoint me if that was the cause, and in that case, I would rather that he was totally honest with me.

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