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Posted by on May 25, 2017 in Sex Disscussion, Uncategorized, Understanding Sex |

I Have Sex Problems

I have been with my boyfriend for about 12 years now, and I did not know that he had a problem with what he likes to call my idea of kinky sex. All of a sudden he sprung it on me when I came home from my shift at London escorts one night. He just told me that he could not handle any more kinky sex, and I was totally taken back. I had never thought that my idea of sex as kinky. Some of the girls that I work with at London escorts are really into kinky sex, but I did not think that I was kinky.

The funny thing is that he had never bothered to tell me before. It really upset me to be honest, and I told my best friend at London escorts about what he had said. She was just as surprised as I had been when I first heard about it, and I am sure that the rest of my colleagues at London escorts will be as well. Like one of the girls said, could it be that there is something else going on here apart from the sex issue.

Why would someone wait for 12 years to tell you that he thinks that you are kinky in bed? That is the thing that I cannot get over at all. I don’t think that I am that kinky at all when it comes to sex, and all of my colleagues at London escorts do agree with me. What is wrong with wanting to watch pornos and play with sex toys? I am sure that a lot of people do that, and you don’t have to work for London escorts to let that sort of fun into your life. Thinking about, his reaction is way over the top.

If you don’t like something that your partner likes to do in bed, I think it is okay to tell him or her.

I have dated so many gents at London escorts who have got what I would call really kinky ideas. None of my ideas come anywhere near their ideas. The kind of sex that I have been having with my boyfriend has been great, but it is not like we have been practising BDSM or anything like that. Far from it actually, and I think that most of our sex life has been really rather normal.

Some nights we have gone to bed and not had sex at all. We have actually made love and it has been really good for me. My boyfriend is really good at foreplay and that to me is really important as well. I need to sit and talk to him about it, but it sounds very much like he feels that he is not in control of our sex life. Or could it be another problem altogether? Like one of the girls at London escorts said, could it be that he has met someone else and just want to get out of the relationship. It would really disappoint me if that was the cause, and in that case, I would rather that he was totally honest with me.

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Posted by on Mar 1, 2016 in Sex Disscussion, Uncategorized, Understanding Sex |

Show me some responsibility

My boyfriend upset me recently when he told me that he had been to a party and had unprotected sex. First of all it really annoyed me that he had sex with someone else because I thought that we were supposed to be exclusive. I shouted at him, and asked him to show me some responsibility. There is no way that I would go off and have unprotected sex with somebody else. My girlfriends at London escorts know what I am like, and they full appreciate that I am a stickler for what I call protocol. As a matter of fact, I don’t know any London escorts who have unprotected sex at parties.

The thing is, you can pick up lots of different diseases, and now you can even catch the Zika virus. I am not sure how it works out with kissing, but it could be that we are moving into dangerous territory here as well. A couple of the girls at London escorts who go to regular Swinger parties, are now extra careful and they do not hook up with guys who have come back from South America. We don’t really know how this virus spreads yet, and many London escorts are really worried.

It is not only about sexual protection. If you want to show some sexual responsibility, you also need to have some sexual integrity. That may sound strange to the average person but it just means that you can be gay one minute and straight the next. I was sitting around with some of my friends at Charlotte action escorts the other day, and we were talking about this. A couple of my friends at Charlotte action escorts are bisexual, and they do not believe that a lot of celebs who claim that they are bisexual, are really bisexual. That is what I mean by sexual integrity.

Another thing that has started to annoy me is men having affairs. Of course, this reared its ugly head after my boyfriend’s little escapade but I am sure that many women feel the same way. At London escorts you never really know who you are dating. It could be a married man who has slipped his wedding band off, but I think that most Charlotte action escorts actually date single guys. I keep looking for indications that my dates are married but so far I have not found that many.

I have told my boyfriend that if he does it again, it is us over. It seems harsh but I want to have a faithful man in my life. My parents split up after my father had an affair, so this is something that I feel strongly about. I still love my dad, but I hate him for what he did to our family. Most of my girlfriends at London escorts understand why I feel so passionately about this point, and I am sure that most other women would as well. A faithful boyfriend or husband is worth his weight in gold.

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Posted by on Jul 10, 2015 in Sex Disscussion, Understanding Sex |

Finchley Escort Agency bosses

Finchley Escort Agency bosses

Finchley escorts like http://cityofeve.com/finchley-escorts seem to finally be making some headway into the escorts service market. This year has been extremely busy for them and the girls have been working harder than ever. Julian, the owner of one of the leading escort agencies in Finchley, stopped by for Friday coffee and cake with us here at the Better Sex Guide and took the opportunity to tell us about his busy and hectic year so far. He had recently returned from a hedonistic holiday in Jamaica and long tanned and healthy. Lucky him, I wish I had the time to take a nice holiday.

This year has certainly been busy offered Julian. January after Christmas completely mad for some reason but I then realized that a lot of divorced gents were trying to get over Christmas. It is a difficult time of the year for many of the gents who date with us and our top Finchley escorts are always booked up during all of January and most of February. This is great for business but it can be a challenging time as visiting gents would also like to date our best girls. I try to move the girls around but it is not always easy.

In March we introduced our first duo dating team. This is a completely new service to Finchley escorts but has been very well received by foreign visitors. So far a lot of local gents have not used the service but we are making progress and it certainly is a service which has added value to our agency. The girls are now more or less fully booked, and I am considering adding another duo dating team in a couple of months time. But first of all I would like to make sure that we are well established in the duo dating market in Finchley.

In the autumn, Finchley escorts services will introduce its first dominatrix service. It seems that this is very popular in other parts of London but I have been dragging my heels a bit on this one. I wanted top make sure that we got it absolutely right and we also managed to get a nice cavern, Some caverns can look really cheap and nasty and I wanted ours to look super stylish. I always want the best for my girls and I have worked hard to get the cavern to look right. Now all I need to do is to find a nice lady to run it.

I am nice, and all my Finchley escorts are nice. Some escorts these days can be a bit rough and I don’t like that at all. All of the girls who pass the test to work for the rest of the Finchley escort service will have to be special. I am not into competition between girls and I much rather have a nice level team. That is what I have now so when I recruit, I focus very hard on keeping that way. Coffee and cake is an important part of my business as well says Julian.

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Posted by on May 26, 2015 in Sex Disscussion, Uncategorized, Understanding Sex |

Sexual responsibility – is it even possible?

Sex is now so prominent in our society, but unfortunately this has not made us more sexually responsible. According to a bit of research done by Essex escorts, we are still not responsible enough when it comes to using protection. As a result sexual diseases such as Chlamydia are still on the increase.

Essex escorts say that many sexual diseases, STD’s, are moving down in the age bracket as well as up. Many divorces in their 50’s don’t think that they need to protect themselves according to Essex escorts. That means that we have not only ended up with a lot of sexuality active teenagers who risk STDs but also the baby boomer’s generation. And believe me, there is a lot of those.

Essex escorts would like to know why we are not talking this matter seriously, so we asked our resident sex expert Dr Annie Bliss to join us. She was more than happy to deal with this matter, and answer all the questions that Essex escorts have.

Dr Annie Bliss on Sexual responsibility

First of all I have to say that Essex escorts have some really valid points here. We seem to have a two fold problem, and Essex escorts are so right. Neither teenagers or the baby boomer generation seem to be behaving very responsibly when it comes to sex. I am sure that Essex escorts date a lot of gents in their 50’s and may end up talking about sexual health quite a bit. This generation seems to think that it is not going to happen to them. Unfortunately, they are also under the impression that HIV infection have passed them by, but this is not true.

We may have developed new treatments for HIV but like Essex escorts say, that doesn’t mean that we should be going around spreading the infection. A real good campaign is needed here, and I think the campaign needs to have a strong focus on the over 50’s who are still sexually active.

Of course, Essex escorts are right about teens as well. Sex education in schools leave a lot to be desired, and there needs to be a stronger focus on sexual health. I have visited a few classes where the teachers have only focused on pregnancy prevention, but they really need to spend an equal amount of time talking about STDs.

Each sexually transmitted disease needs to be focused on, and we need to get a bit graphic here. We have managed to achieve that with cigarette packaging – why can’t we do that with sex education? Sometimes shock tactics are good, and graphic images have a home in the class room as well. We need to drum of the fact that STDs kill, and at the moment we are not doing that effectively enough.

It can be difficult to talk openly about these matters, but we all need to cut down on our own embarrassment factor, and get on with the job in hand. Honestly, it is time for an open an honest debate about our sexual future.

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